Monday, 19 December 2011
I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day...
It's hard to believe that Christmas is just a week away, it seems as if this whole last year someone just pressed fast-forward. I made a list a few days ago of the things I needed to do before I head out on Saturday and one of the things I put at the top of the list was to write one more post before I go...something about my thoughts on Christmas. Each year I try and enjoy this special season, but it seems sometimes the last few years to have just slipped past and eluded me. I don't have a tree, don't have any lights, don't have any stockings and around my house you wouldn't even know it's Christmas, except for the music I've been playing. I love Christmas music and this year found a few songs I really like. One of those is from the Christian group Casting Crowns. I found this song kind of just by accident, and after listening to it a few times and really enjoying it, I wanted to share it with you all.
I remember singing the song I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day but I never knew the story behind the song. It was originally written as a poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow on December 25, 1864. In the years leading up to 1864, Longfellow had dealt with quite a bit of personal tragedy including the death of his wife in a house fire on July 10, 1861. Of course this was also the same year that the American Civil War broke out (in April) The first Christmas after his wife's death in 1861, he wrote in his journal "How inexpressibly sad are the holidays." Still reeling the following Christmas in 1862 he wrote "I can make no record of these days, better leave them wrapped in silence. Perhaps someday God will give me peace. A Merry Christmas say all the children, but that is no more for me." Almost a year later he received word that his oldest son Charles had been severely wounded in one of the battles. His diary was silent that year at Christmas...I don't know exactly what happened the next year to finally free him from the anguish he had felt for several years, but finally in 1864 he penned the words "God is not dead, nor doth he sleep!"
Christmas evokes lots of different memories...for me as a child, it was certainly my favorite time of year. We grew up in an area with lots of snow, and my earliest recollections are always of a white Christmas. I remember my uncle always cutting down a beautiful tree for us, and we would usually listen to some of Mom's old records, like Nat King Cole Christmas and I think maybe Bing Crosby too. It was always lots of fun, we'd hang those old fat lights up on the tree (that I think have since been outlawed! HA) and the tinsel would get all over on the carpet. Paonia Elementary always had us make those hideous Christmas decorations, maybe a macaroni bell with a picture of us kids, or some kind of deformed clay tree that looked more like a hunched back porcupine, but I think Mom loved them just the same since we were the ones that made them. We didn't have lots of money when I was a kid, but I know Mom and Dad always made sure we had fun gifts, and I thank them for their sacrifice...I was never disappointed on Christmas morning. I remember getting a box most years from my Grandma Holyoak, and we'd dig through and find those world famous corn flake cookies she made (I remember I loved Grandma's Utah accent, she'd call them "carn flake cookies!" HA) and we'd tear through those things, which I'm pretty sure attributed to all the cavities I had, a nice mixture of Karo corn syrup and peanut butter! As I said before (I think last year), I remember Gram Langston spending nights with us, and then traveling to our cousin's houses and showing and sharing gifts. It was a magical time...then, sadly, I got older, and each year seemed less and less special, like the magic of Christmas was slipping away. It's sad actually, I miss the excitement I felt when I was a kid. Then of course, as people get even older, things happen in their lives, not always pleasant things, that seem to dent the holiday spirit even more. Family tragedies, sickness, broken relationships, etc. I just talked with my good friend the other day and his wife's mom has just been diagnosed with cancer...just a few years after her father passed away from this horrible disease. It's easy to feel the same way that Longfellow felt "how inexpressibly sad are the holidays" The last few years, I've almost just avoided the holidays all-together, just being here and alone, it seemed almost like the easiest thing to do. For some reason I feel different this year, I've tried to embrace Christmas like I did when I was young. The kids at the school are so excited for our Christmas presentation we're doing this week, and it's just been a lot of fun this year. I think this song kind of hit me this year, maybe in a way it wouldn't have in years passed. I love Christmas and it's time to enjoy it again!
I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and I hope you are blessed to be able to enjoy this joyous time of year, whether you are alone or with someone you love. Be thankful for the blessings in your life, big and small. Life is a mystery, which can not be solved and it's good it can't be solved...otherwise what would you do then?
"Glory to God in the Highest, and on Earth peace, good will toward men"
Here's a link to the video, I hope you enjoy the song as much as I do...I think this version is excellent!
I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day
Saturday, 26 November 2011
New ACE sign
I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving and you've been able to digest all that turkey! HAHA!
My school (well, mine and Dana's) has been in business just over two years now (since August 2009)...I feel pretty proud that we've at least made it this far. Some days I wonder how I was blessed to have an opportunity like this to live abroad, own my own business, and make decent money doing it. We've faced some challenges along the way of course but also seen lots of triumphs. I feel lucky that almost all of our kids are super cool and pretty enthusiastic about learning English. Some are able to learn quicker than others, but like everything in life, some things you have the knack for and some things you don't. Some of my kids I feel could honestly almost go to the States and function in an American school, they really are that good. Some are struggling and try their best, but it just takes longer for some kids. Anyway, when we first started we had three kids, and of course had no idea what might lie ahead. We didn't have much money, and so our first school sign was pretty cheap and we had no idea what kind of design to make. As I said, with the sign being cheap, it wasn't even a lit sign, just visible during the day. Well, we've had a few new schools move into the area (the school below us teaches Chinese mainly, but also focuses on English and Japanese) and one of them (as much as I hate to say it) has a very nice, LCD sign. So, Dana and I decided it was time to get a new sign and make ourselves (once again! HAHA) the best school in the area. We are lucky in the fact that we have the only school with a foreign teacher for everyday lessons. We felt like our previous sign didn't really do that justice, so we decided to go a little overboard on the American theme, letting people know exactly what they're getting if their kids study with us.
We started with some ideas, but Dana's friend is a designer and so we put some ideas together and then sent them off to her. She sent back a wonderful design (I think) and we decided to roll with it. We both really like having the Statue of Liberty as our logo, and we're hoping when people see that they automatically think of Ace! So, we'll see how it goes. Also, this sign will be much nicer and also with lights, so visible at night. A little more than this miser would like to spend, but I think it's time for a new sign, and very necessary.
So...anyway, this is just the photoshopped version, we have a few minor changes, but this is about 95% what it will look like.
So, what do you think...be honest and let me know any feedback any of you might have before we make this final!
Thanks!
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
Making kimchi
This is the time of year when most people make kimchi. The harvest is all finished from the fall and of course (and unfortunately) winter is on its way. A few weeks ago, Dana and I met her mom near her garden and helped her bring all the vegetables she had grown back to her house. I had mentioned that I wanted to help make kimchi again this year (I did two years ago) and so her Mom said she'd let me help out. We met at her mom's house Monday morning and got the party started! Kimchi is made from all kinds of vegetables, but in this case we made it from radishes and cabbages. As I mentioned, her mom grew all of her own, but at the markets there are piles and piles or radish and cabbage. The steps are to make a pepper paste (which will be used to rub onto the radish and cabbage) first. It's made from all kinds of vegetables, I think some onions, parsley, etc. That added together with some pepper paste, sugar and water. The radish and cabbages had all been washed and cut up and prepared for their long kimchi journey. When we got to her mom's house, her mom and her aunts already had the pepper paste mix finished and spread out onto a big plastic sheet in the middle of the floor. I helped carry all the radish and cabbage out into the living room from the kitchen. The process is basically to rub the pepper paste onto each leaf of cabbage and then of course over time the flavor soaks all in. People usually put them into plastic containers and then put them into a kimchi refrigerator and eat it with pretty much every meal. It was lots of fun to help do this...of course not something every American living here gets to do. I love doing stuff like this that feels very authentic Korean. The closest thing I think from the States is like when Mom would can and pressure cook vegetables, or when Mom and Dad made their awesome apple juice.
With the 5 of us working together, it went quickly and we had a good time and ate kimchi as we made it. The picture of me is NOT STAGED and I really was actually working, not just posing for photo ops! :) HA! We made a combo of about 70 radishes and cabbages. After we finished Dana's mom cooked us a nice lunch and also gave me some kimchi to bring back home. It was lots of fun and everything was cool minus the pink rubber gloves. I hate pink and I hate the smell of rubber, but the smell washed off and there wasn't much I could do about the color! HA!
Anyway, here are some pictures and I hope everyone is having a great week.
Happy Thanksgiving to all my American family and friends...I hope everyone has a wonderful time with their loved ones. As much as I love Christmas, for some reason I always feel more homesick during Thanksgiving...maybe because I know we don't have that here, so it's almost like it's not happening here, even though I know everyone is together this week back home. I always loved Thanksgiving when I was a kid, usually going to Aunt Sharon's house and enjoying the wonderful turkey, biscuits, stuffing, potatoes, pies and even kool-aid, which was a special treat for us back then! HA! I remember sometimes I was so stuffed I almost couldn't even walk myself to the car. I love Thanksgiving and hope everyone has a great week!
Sunday, 16 October 2011
Steelers Stanley, etc.
Fall is in the air, it's been cool in the morning and evening and the trees are starting to change colors...I really love this time of year, actually...just hate the fact that I know winter will be right around the corner.
My newphew Derek sent me (and the school) a project to work on called Flat Stanley, it's from a book where a boy gets crushed by a bulletin board which enables him to travel around the world in an envelope. Basically, kids send Flat Stanley (FS) to friends or family and then they can decorate him and take pics with him, and tell about the area they live in, and then send the pics and info back to the kids. I think it's a cool way to learn about new places around the world. So, after getting FS from Derek, we decided to let all the kids at the school in on the project, and finally after a little more than a month I think we're ready to send it back to Derek, so...DMan, be looking for your stuff buddy! Anyway, I wanted to post a few of the pics I took with FS in my area just so you can get a bit of the feel for the project.
As I said, it's also been getting a little cold so I've been looking for a new winter coat for the upcoming year. There is a really cool girl at our school, and her church was having a sale to raise money for people in SE Asia, well, her mom invited Dana and I to go to the sale. I was surprised when I got there how many cool things they had there, and I found a GREAT new coat that had been donated to the church...all for $4! Yep, $4! I had been planning to go and get a new coat and had anticipated spending around probably $75-100,so I was amazed when I found this one. To make matters even better, Dana said she wanted to get me a present there at the sale, so I actually got it for free. How good is that?! HA!
As some of you may (or may not) know the NBA millionaires and billionaires are feuding over money and so as of right now they are not playing. Also, as some of you may (surely you know) know, I love fantasy sports. Well, I've gotten into hockey over the last few years, and so I was lucky to find a jersey this weekend from my new favorite player for the Chicago Blackhawks Jonathan Toews.
Also, I figured I'd update people a little on my Christmas 2011 trip. I will be flying out of here on Saturday the 24th and down to Melbourne. I'll arrive there on Christmas Day and from there catch a short flight down to Hobart which is on the island of Tasmania, Australia. I get to spend Christmas night in a swanky little hostel (this will be my first hostel experience, the hotels there for Christmas were RIDICULOUS) and then head out for a week long backpacking adventure across the island of Tasmania. I'm pretty pumped and can't wait. I'll get back to Melbourne late Friday night and have a full day to bum around the city before leaving out that night at 11 PM. Of course, I always wish I had more time, but I take what I can get and enjoy the time I do have.
I wanted to share a portion of a poem from William Wadsworth called Ode: Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood
What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now for ever taken from my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind;
In the primal sympathy
Which having been must ever be;
In the soothing thoughts that spring
Out of human suffering;
In the faith that looks through death,
In years that bring the philosophic mind.
Monday, 29 August 2011
Dreamin of...
Saturday, 13 August 2011
Vacation Video
Here's a little video I made, my apologies I know you've already seen a lot of these pictures...I used most of the ones I liked when I wrote about our trip and this video was just sort of an afterthought. HA!
However...if you love some good Scottish bagpipe music, you can crank up your speakers and at least enjoy that! The group is called Saor Patrol and the song name is "Lost Song"
They have some songs on their website you can purchase, or just listen to while you're on the site.
However...if you love some good Scottish bagpipe music, you can crank up your speakers and at least enjoy that! The group is called Saor Patrol and the song name is "Lost Song"
They have some songs on their website you can purchase, or just listen to while you're on the site.
Sunday, 7 August 2011
UK 2011 Part Two
*****This post ended up being quite long I think I accidently hit the "medium sized pictures" instead of small, but anyway, there is also UK 2011 Part One on the next page if you scroll to the bottom and hit "older posts"*****
I had mixed emotions as we left Stirling...a little sad because I thought that place was one of the coolest places on earth, but also excited because we would be moving on to see some new and exciting places. Edinburgh (Eburgh) was our next destination. So, after filling our stomachs the second time with some good breakfast at Ravenswood, we headed out. We had read that Eburgh had a nice park and ride and since we wanted to avoid the traffic there at all costs, we found the airport park and ride and had also pre-booked a hotel for that night. We easily found the park and ride and loaded onto the bus which took us down to Princess Street, right near the Eburgh Castle. The bus was cool, it was a double-decker and it was fun to ride and look at all the sites going in to town, which was 100 times less stress than looking at a map and trying to figure out where to park. I had talked with my friend Tom who had been to Eburgh and he said it was one of his favorite cities that he's been to, so I had high expectations...I was not disappointed. Just after exiting the bus, the ooh's and aah's started! There was a beautiful park there on Princess Street (well, actually many beautiful parks) that was just under the Eburgh Castle. We all were in awe as we looked around...the blend of old buildings and the beautiful park were truly something to behold! Mom wanted to walk around the park a bit, so we saw just a little and then headed up the hill towards the castle. I had hoped we'd have a little more time later in the day to get back to the park, and fortunately we did. The walk up the hill to the castle and the Royal Mile was a nice one, with amazing views down onto the city and out into the Firth of Forth (basically the sea just north of Eburgh). We got up to the castle and they were building a stadium for the music festival they are holding later this summer, it was a bit of an eye sore, but not too bad. I thought it was funny with some of the most beautiful buildings I'd ever seen around, there were people posing in front of the blue plastic seats of the temporary stadium...to each his own I guess. The line out of the castle looked extremely long and I had wished I had pre-purchased tickets the night before...I had thought about it and didn't go through with it. Note to anyone visiting the castle in Eburgh...PRE-BUY YOUR TICKETS!! HA! The line actually moved along pretty good, we were able to get to the counter within about an hour, so not awful, but just kind of a waste of time. The castle was really awesome, but maybe it was the fact that there were SOOO many people there, I just seemed to enjoy the inside of Stirling Castle a little better. Still, the views there were really amazing as well, just much different looking down on the city as opposed to out into the countryside near Stirling. There has been a royal castle on that spot since around the 12th century. It was interesting, there was an area underground where they hid the crown jewels during WWII when they thought Germany might attack there. Obviously that didn't happen, but I thought that was an interesting piece of history. They actually have the real crown jewels there now, along with some sword and other things, but in that area they wouldn't let people take pictures. I really liked the castle, but, after just visiting the Stirling Castle, I was mildly disappointed, maybe just too many people or too touristy feeling, I'm not sure. It definitely was cool though and I enjoyed the time there. We stayed a few hours checking out the sites inside the castle area and then headed down the Royal Mile which is a collection of historical buildings and tourist shops. There were many street performers, including musicians, magicians and people dressed in just weird costumes (one woman was like an 8 foot golden queen). I was REALLY happy when we heard some bagpipe players, and it seemed like they were true performers, not just playing some squeaky noise to make a few bucks. They were older gentlemen and I enjoyed hearing them play, I've always loved the bagpipes. Mom actually had a chance to jump in and take a picture with them, so I thought that was a lot of fun. We made our way down the Royal Mile, which starts at the Eburgh Castle and ends at the Holyrood Palace. The palace is the official residence of the monarch in Scotland and where the Queen stays when she visits Eburgh. The only bad thing is that there was a gate in front and some delivery vans and such there, so it was nearly impossible to get a good picture of the Palace. One of my favorite things in that area were the mountains just behind the palace where many people had climbed and surely had a gorgeous view of the city. We didn't make it up that way, it was quite a bit out of the way and we had already done quite a bit of walking (and we weren't but halfway done! HA) I really wanted to walk up to Calton Hill above the city, but thanks to some bum directions from the lady at the Holyrood Palace, we walked about a mile or so out of the way, but eventually made it up there. The views of the city were really cool from on top, and there were many people there just relaxing and enjoying the afternoon. We walked back down the hill and found an interesting cemetery (for some reason I love old cemeteries) and so we took a few pictures there too. Just walking back down Princess Street was a real treat, with all the old buildings and just the feeling of the city I really really enjoyed it. We made our way back to that park at the base of the castle and walked around through there just enjoying the flowers and the beauty. It was getting near dinner time and I found a little restaurant we tried out, the food was pretty good, I got Chicken Tikka Masala, which is actually a British Indian dish...it was quite tasty, I just found it funny that they served it along with chips (french fries). One thing I noticed in the UK, EVERYTHING comes with chips...everything! I know the US gets a bad rap for having tons of obese people, well let me tell you...the US ain't got nothing on the UK! Anyway, suffice to say that if you like french fries, then the UK is a great place to visit! HA! We made it back to the pickup spot for the Park and Ride and headed back to the airport and our hotel at around 10 PM. We had had a wonderful day, enjoyed the beautiful city of Edinburgh and had really had a nice day. I have to agree with my friend Tom and concur that it truly is an amazing city. I easily could have spent three or four days there! The hotel (Travelodge) was very near the airport, and I was thrilled that we made it that day with no mishaps on the traffic side of things, we easily found the park & ride and easily found the hotel. The lady in Stirling was right, Edinburgh is MUCH more expensive than most places, that little Travelodge we stayed at was 90 pounds, (without free WiFi or breakfast) and not half as nice as Ravenswood was!
At this point we really changed our plans from what we had originally thought. We had originally planned to head down the east coast of England and then into Stoke Upon Trent, Birmingham, etc. However, we had gladly spent more time in Scotland then we originally thought, so for the sake of saving time, we headed back towards the expressway. I had hoped to see a little more of the east coast then we were able to, but I can't imagine I would have liked it as much as Scotland, so I'm OK that we didn't. We were able to enjoy some beautiful scenery as we headed back to the expressway down the A702. I really loved the area near Biggar, as it had many rolling hills and grazing animals.
Our drive back down the expressway was nice and relaxed, just enjoying the scenery as we went. I helped drive just a little more, Dad was kind of tired and I figured on the expressway there would be minimal chance of anything happening. It was kind of fun they had an England sign in the same area across the expressway from the Scotland sign, so we stopped and got a few pictures there as well.
We got down around Stoke Upon Trent at around early evening time, and tried to find some of the areas that were important for Mom with her family history. Stoke and the surrounding area is well know for pottery, and so we were able to locate the town of Burslem, which is located just a few miles from Stoke. In this area, Mom's great grandma (I believe) had worked and painted pottery, so we tried to find some pottery places there. It was just after 6 PM and unfortunately the place we found was closed. Sadly, I have to admit I just didn't much like the area, it seemed quite run down and it was about the only place on the trip I just didn't feel very comfortable. I felt bad because I know Mom was happy to be in the place where our grandma had worked, but we decided to move on the the Derby/Denby area and camp for the night. We were able to find a cheap (yay, cheap!!) hotel in Derby that was pretty cute and clean for around 30 pounds. The funniest thing about this little hotel room (and I do mean little, it just had a stall for the toilet and the shower opened up out into the room! HA) was that it had a bunk bed over the double bed. I've never seen that in a hotel room, so it made it quite fun I thought. Anyway, we got a good nights sleep there, and the next morning headed to Denby, which was another area where some of Mom's family had lived and worked. I was happy with how cute and fun of an area Denby turned out to be, and I was happy they had a pottery village we were able to go to and enjoy. I know Mom enjoyed looking around there and I think she was able to find some things for her sisters, which she had hoped to do. The village was really cute and clean and we spent the morning there. The cafeteria had some nice food and also free WiFi so my PLAN was to map out where I wanted to go in Birmingham (Bham). After eating we stopped by one of Mom's family churches and we were able to find some tombstones with the Hunt family name on them. Not sure exactly who they were, but we found the church regardless. It was in a cool area, and like I said before, the area around Denby was very nice and I was happy to think I had family from around there.
I had everything all written down and planned for when we hit Bham, but sadly things QUICKLY fell apart when I told my dad to take a wrong turn. Bham is a city over 1,000,000 people and the second most populous city in the UK behind London, so...needless to say we were overmatched! HA! We drove frantically for a bit, trying to get back to where we needed to be, but it was impossible. Now, as I've said before, in the States no problem, we could have found it, but this WASN'T the States, and there seemed to be roundabouts and turn offs everywhere you looked. Finally Dad just pulled over and we took a breath for a bit, trying to figure out our game plan. I was pretty frustrated with the roads, and for a few minutes I was ready to admit my defeat and just head north to Wales. I had about 10 roads we needed to turn on to find St. Edburgha Church, and I knew that wasn't going to happen. I walked around for a bit, trying to think of a plan. Could we just walk there? HA! Argh...finally, I thought, "let's just get a cab!" So, I asked Mom and Dad what they thought, and they agreed, let's just do that. We found a corner store and asked the guy to call a cab for us. He did and I told the driver where we were going, "Yes, he said. I know where that church is, it's about 5 miles from here." So, we got in, and he took off. Amazing how much less stress it was just riding with some guy who knew where he was going. He was an affable gentleman originally from the Kashmir area of Pakistan, he said he had been in BHam from the 1970s and thought it was cool that we had gone all that way just to see some family churches and see where our ancestors had lived. After a bit (and about 277 turns) we arrived at the St. Edburgha Church at long last! This church is special to the Holyoak family as it is where my great great great great grandfather George Holyoak, Sr. married his bride Sarah Green. It was almost unreal to be in a place where I knew my ancestors had also walked! It came with slight disappointment as the steeple was currently being worked on, so they had a huge blue tarp draped over it...also there was no cemetery there at this time. I'm not sure if they dug people up and moved them, but according to my records some of our family were supposedly buried there. Anyway, it was a lot of fun to look around the church, and the taxi driver patiently looked around with us, he even seemed a little bit excited. He said that someday he hoped to take his family back to Pakistan and do the same thing we were doing, and he asked me to include him in this blog so he could be a small part of our trip and our family history adventure. His name was Mr. Hussein and after looking around the church for a bit we headed back to the place where our car was parked. Mr. Hussein wished us well on the rest of our journey, and I hoped that our ancestors were proud of us for not giving up, and trying to find their church. I had really hoped to stop by Villa Park (home of Aston Villa Football Club) and see the stadium, but the chance of us finding it was minimal. As we headed for the expressway actually I did get to see the stadium as we drove past, and since I am just kind of a johnny-come-lately soccer fan, that was enough for me.
The drive up to Wales was incredible! I was mildly disappointed that they didn't have a welcome sign on the road, as you can tell I enjoy getting pictures near there, but what can we do?! HA! The roads there was VERY narrow as we made our way up the mountains, and of course right next to my window was a rock wall for what seemed like 30 miles. Winding up the road, I noticed the temperature kept dropping too, it was around 57 degrees the first time we stopped near a beautiful little church. I noticed several little houses had their stoves burning! The beauty of Wales is almost too hard to describe, as much as I had loved Scotland and England, Wales just seemed to really amaze me. I loved the hills and how rural it felt up in the area we were. We had booked a night at the Ruthin Castle and I hoped it would be amazing. It was fun to see the signs on the road using Welsh and English, and it certainly felt like we weren't in England anymore. As we arrived in the little town of Ruthin, we spotted the castle up on top of the hill. We found our way to entrance after winding up some NARROW streets, (I don't even know how people can drive on those streets!). Driving into there was such a cool feeling, through the gates the castle was surrounded by woodlands and the castle really seemed to be on its own there. Upon entering the lobby, I was already amazed and was sure the castle would more than meet our expectation. We got our stuff and checked into our rooms, I had the junior room and Mom and Dad had a castle room I think it was called. Anyway, the rooms were fabulous and the view out my window was great, it looked out into some green fields and the forrest near the castle. We toured the grounds for a bit and then started to get hungry. Mom said she wanted to eat dinner at the castle and I was glad we decided to do that. The dining room was very elegant and quiet, had some nice music playing and beautiful flowers. I ordered some trout which was just exquisite and Mom and Dad both ordered the duck. I think they enjoyed it a lot as well. The castle was huge, and there were reading rooms, game rooms and many different dining halls. I got a great nights sleep and we awoke in the morning for some more touring of the grounds. We walked around for a few hours and must have taken 1000 pictures between Mom and I! HA! The grounds were amazing, the greenery and old castle walls were really interesting to see. There were also a lot of peacocks, rabbits and other wildlife on the property. Ruthin Castle is definitely one of the coolest places I have ever stayed in my life. We all raved about how fun and cool it was. If you find yourself in Wales, I promise you will love the castle there in Ruthin and the prices compared to a lot of the UK were actually really good (I think my room was 50 pounds and Mom and Dad's room was around 75).
The week seemed to go sooooo fast and starting our last full day together felt a little sad as we headed towards the town of Conwy. The drive to there was also beautiful and as we neared Conwy you could see the Sea of Ireland on the north hand side of the road. We got to Conwy quickly from Ruthin and wanted to spend our last day out of the car and enjoying the sites. Conwy was a really cool little seaside town which is well know for the walls the encircle the entire city. It was a lot of fun, you can walk along the walls the entire way, so we walked up to the place where you can get on the wall and enjoyed the uneven walk around! HA! The city itself was very charming, it had a lot of cool little shops and restaurants. I also noticed there was a barber shop named Jensen's Barber (my sister's married name is Jensen) so that was kind of fun too. We spent lots of time in the shops and finally Mom got to eat her fish and chips! HA! She seemed pretty happy and so did Dad. I opted for the meat pie which was delicious, the longer I've been in Korea the less I like fried foods, and the fish looked pretty oily to me. The little restaurant was nice and we enjoyed a good meal there, as well as buying a lot of things for souvenirs. I really liked the Wales flag, and so I bought almost all of my souvenirs in Wales. The people there were really friendly and I really loved that little country. The weather there was also nice, a little breezy, but it was a lovely day to enjoy seeing a historic town like that.
As the day was winding down we decided to head back to Manchester and get ready for my flight out the next day. I was hopeful that on the way back in to England we might see a sign for welcome to Wales, but...there wasn't. We got back to Manchester and just had a nice evening enjoying discussing all the fun things we had done. I decided since dad was such a Road Warrior and had braved over 1000 miles of driving on the wrong side, around roundabouts and everything else, he deserved a nice picture with his chariot! We were even joking around and I got him to flex his muscles...he had came, he had seen, he had CONQUERED the roads of the UK! I also had a chance to finally see the lovely tea pot Mom had bought for herself in Denby. I wished it was easier to get things like that home, I would have liked to have bought some pottery as well.
The next morning was of course a sad one, as I had to arise early and get back over the airport for my long flight back to Korea. There were tears shed at the airport as there always are when you leave the ones you love. I know it might be some time again until I see Mom and Dad and that's hard. I'd like to take this time to thank them for joining me on this AMAZING trip. They were both so wonderful to travel with, this certainly was my favorite trip I've ever taken. They are just so easy and fun to travel with. My Mom has to be one of the most enthusiastic people ever, I loved to hear her say "Oh guys, look over there!" all through the trip. She was lovely and enthusiastic and it made it a lot of fun. To my Dad, thanks for being so pleasant and easy to get along with, my Dad has to be one of the kindest, easiest to get along with guys in the world. He likes to do things that make others happy, and I appreciated his willingness to do anything we wanted to do on the trip (even the day we must have walked at least 5 miles around Edinburgh...no joke!). He was always smiling and happy. I love my parents and I'm so thankful and happy that we did this trip. I will never forget the times we shared here, and I hope it was just as special for you both too. These will be memories I carry with me through my whole life. I love you both!
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” Mark Twain
I had mixed emotions as we left Stirling...a little sad because I thought that place was one of the coolest places on earth, but also excited because we would be moving on to see some new and exciting places. Edinburgh (Eburgh) was our next destination. So, after filling our stomachs the second time with some good breakfast at Ravenswood, we headed out. We had read that Eburgh had a nice park and ride and since we wanted to avoid the traffic there at all costs, we found the airport park and ride and had also pre-booked a hotel for that night. We easily found the park and ride and loaded onto the bus which took us down to Princess Street, right near the Eburgh Castle. The bus was cool, it was a double-decker and it was fun to ride and look at all the sites going in to town, which was 100 times less stress than looking at a map and trying to figure out where to park. I had talked with my friend Tom who had been to Eburgh and he said it was one of his favorite cities that he's been to, so I had high expectations...I was not disappointed. Just after exiting the bus, the ooh's and aah's started! There was a beautiful park there on Princess Street (well, actually many beautiful parks) that was just under the Eburgh Castle. We all were in awe as we looked around...the blend of old buildings and the beautiful park were truly something to behold! Mom wanted to walk around the park a bit, so we saw just a little and then headed up the hill towards the castle. I had hoped we'd have a little more time later in the day to get back to the park, and fortunately we did. The walk up the hill to the castle and the Royal Mile was a nice one, with amazing views down onto the city and out into the Firth of Forth (basically the sea just north of Eburgh). We got up to the castle and they were building a stadium for the music festival they are holding later this summer, it was a bit of an eye sore, but not too bad. I thought it was funny with some of the most beautiful buildings I'd ever seen around, there were people posing in front of the blue plastic seats of the temporary stadium...to each his own I guess. The line out of the castle looked extremely long and I had wished I had pre-purchased tickets the night before...I had thought about it and didn't go through with it. Note to anyone visiting the castle in Eburgh...PRE-BUY YOUR TICKETS!! HA! The line actually moved along pretty good, we were able to get to the counter within about an hour, so not awful, but just kind of a waste of time. The castle was really awesome, but maybe it was the fact that there were SOOO many people there, I just seemed to enjoy the inside of Stirling Castle a little better. Still, the views there were really amazing as well, just much different looking down on the city as opposed to out into the countryside near Stirling. There has been a royal castle on that spot since around the 12th century. It was interesting, there was an area underground where they hid the crown jewels during WWII when they thought Germany might attack there. Obviously that didn't happen, but I thought that was an interesting piece of history. They actually have the real crown jewels there now, along with some sword and other things, but in that area they wouldn't let people take pictures. I really liked the castle, but, after just visiting the Stirling Castle, I was mildly disappointed, maybe just too many people or too touristy feeling, I'm not sure. It definitely was cool though and I enjoyed the time there. We stayed a few hours checking out the sites inside the castle area and then headed down the Royal Mile which is a collection of historical buildings and tourist shops. There were many street performers, including musicians, magicians and people dressed in just weird costumes (one woman was like an 8 foot golden queen). I was REALLY happy when we heard some bagpipe players, and it seemed like they were true performers, not just playing some squeaky noise to make a few bucks. They were older gentlemen and I enjoyed hearing them play, I've always loved the bagpipes. Mom actually had a chance to jump in and take a picture with them, so I thought that was a lot of fun. We made our way down the Royal Mile, which starts at the Eburgh Castle and ends at the Holyrood Palace. The palace is the official residence of the monarch in Scotland and where the Queen stays when she visits Eburgh. The only bad thing is that there was a gate in front and some delivery vans and such there, so it was nearly impossible to get a good picture of the Palace. One of my favorite things in that area were the mountains just behind the palace where many people had climbed and surely had a gorgeous view of the city. We didn't make it up that way, it was quite a bit out of the way and we had already done quite a bit of walking (and we weren't but halfway done! HA) I really wanted to walk up to Calton Hill above the city, but thanks to some bum directions from the lady at the Holyrood Palace, we walked about a mile or so out of the way, but eventually made it up there. The views of the city were really cool from on top, and there were many people there just relaxing and enjoying the afternoon. We walked back down the hill and found an interesting cemetery (for some reason I love old cemeteries) and so we took a few pictures there too. Just walking back down Princess Street was a real treat, with all the old buildings and just the feeling of the city I really really enjoyed it. We made our way back to that park at the base of the castle and walked around through there just enjoying the flowers and the beauty. It was getting near dinner time and I found a little restaurant we tried out, the food was pretty good, I got Chicken Tikka Masala, which is actually a British Indian dish...it was quite tasty, I just found it funny that they served it along with chips (french fries). One thing I noticed in the UK, EVERYTHING comes with chips...everything! I know the US gets a bad rap for having tons of obese people, well let me tell you...the US ain't got nothing on the UK! Anyway, suffice to say that if you like french fries, then the UK is a great place to visit! HA! We made it back to the pickup spot for the Park and Ride and headed back to the airport and our hotel at around 10 PM. We had had a wonderful day, enjoyed the beautiful city of Edinburgh and had really had a nice day. I have to agree with my friend Tom and concur that it truly is an amazing city. I easily could have spent three or four days there! The hotel (Travelodge) was very near the airport, and I was thrilled that we made it that day with no mishaps on the traffic side of things, we easily found the park & ride and easily found the hotel. The lady in Stirling was right, Edinburgh is MUCH more expensive than most places, that little Travelodge we stayed at was 90 pounds, (without free WiFi or breakfast) and not half as nice as Ravenswood was!
At this point we really changed our plans from what we had originally thought. We had originally planned to head down the east coast of England and then into Stoke Upon Trent, Birmingham, etc. However, we had gladly spent more time in Scotland then we originally thought, so for the sake of saving time, we headed back towards the expressway. I had hoped to see a little more of the east coast then we were able to, but I can't imagine I would have liked it as much as Scotland, so I'm OK that we didn't. We were able to enjoy some beautiful scenery as we headed back to the expressway down the A702. I really loved the area near Biggar, as it had many rolling hills and grazing animals.
Our drive back down the expressway was nice and relaxed, just enjoying the scenery as we went. I helped drive just a little more, Dad was kind of tired and I figured on the expressway there would be minimal chance of anything happening. It was kind of fun they had an England sign in the same area across the expressway from the Scotland sign, so we stopped and got a few pictures there as well.
We got down around Stoke Upon Trent at around early evening time, and tried to find some of the areas that were important for Mom with her family history. Stoke and the surrounding area is well know for pottery, and so we were able to locate the town of Burslem, which is located just a few miles from Stoke. In this area, Mom's great grandma (I believe) had worked and painted pottery, so we tried to find some pottery places there. It was just after 6 PM and unfortunately the place we found was closed. Sadly, I have to admit I just didn't much like the area, it seemed quite run down and it was about the only place on the trip I just didn't feel very comfortable. I felt bad because I know Mom was happy to be in the place where our grandma had worked, but we decided to move on the the Derby/Denby area and camp for the night. We were able to find a cheap (yay, cheap!!) hotel in Derby that was pretty cute and clean for around 30 pounds. The funniest thing about this little hotel room (and I do mean little, it just had a stall for the toilet and the shower opened up out into the room! HA) was that it had a bunk bed over the double bed. I've never seen that in a hotel room, so it made it quite fun I thought. Anyway, we got a good nights sleep there, and the next morning headed to Denby, which was another area where some of Mom's family had lived and worked. I was happy with how cute and fun of an area Denby turned out to be, and I was happy they had a pottery village we were able to go to and enjoy. I know Mom enjoyed looking around there and I think she was able to find some things for her sisters, which she had hoped to do. The village was really cute and clean and we spent the morning there. The cafeteria had some nice food and also free WiFi so my PLAN was to map out where I wanted to go in Birmingham (Bham). After eating we stopped by one of Mom's family churches and we were able to find some tombstones with the Hunt family name on them. Not sure exactly who they were, but we found the church regardless. It was in a cool area, and like I said before, the area around Denby was very nice and I was happy to think I had family from around there.
I had everything all written down and planned for when we hit Bham, but sadly things QUICKLY fell apart when I told my dad to take a wrong turn. Bham is a city over 1,000,000 people and the second most populous city in the UK behind London, so...needless to say we were overmatched! HA! We drove frantically for a bit, trying to get back to where we needed to be, but it was impossible. Now, as I've said before, in the States no problem, we could have found it, but this WASN'T the States, and there seemed to be roundabouts and turn offs everywhere you looked. Finally Dad just pulled over and we took a breath for a bit, trying to figure out our game plan. I was pretty frustrated with the roads, and for a few minutes I was ready to admit my defeat and just head north to Wales. I had about 10 roads we needed to turn on to find St. Edburgha Church, and I knew that wasn't going to happen. I walked around for a bit, trying to think of a plan. Could we just walk there? HA! Argh...finally, I thought, "let's just get a cab!" So, I asked Mom and Dad what they thought, and they agreed, let's just do that. We found a corner store and asked the guy to call a cab for us. He did and I told the driver where we were going, "Yes, he said. I know where that church is, it's about 5 miles from here." So, we got in, and he took off. Amazing how much less stress it was just riding with some guy who knew where he was going. He was an affable gentleman originally from the Kashmir area of Pakistan, he said he had been in BHam from the 1970s and thought it was cool that we had gone all that way just to see some family churches and see where our ancestors had lived. After a bit (and about 277 turns) we arrived at the St. Edburgha Church at long last! This church is special to the Holyoak family as it is where my great great great great grandfather George Holyoak, Sr. married his bride Sarah Green. It was almost unreal to be in a place where I knew my ancestors had also walked! It came with slight disappointment as the steeple was currently being worked on, so they had a huge blue tarp draped over it...also there was no cemetery there at this time. I'm not sure if they dug people up and moved them, but according to my records some of our family were supposedly buried there. Anyway, it was a lot of fun to look around the church, and the taxi driver patiently looked around with us, he even seemed a little bit excited. He said that someday he hoped to take his family back to Pakistan and do the same thing we were doing, and he asked me to include him in this blog so he could be a small part of our trip and our family history adventure. His name was Mr. Hussein and after looking around the church for a bit we headed back to the place where our car was parked. Mr. Hussein wished us well on the rest of our journey, and I hoped that our ancestors were proud of us for not giving up, and trying to find their church. I had really hoped to stop by Villa Park (home of Aston Villa Football Club) and see the stadium, but the chance of us finding it was minimal. As we headed for the expressway actually I did get to see the stadium as we drove past, and since I am just kind of a johnny-come-lately soccer fan, that was enough for me.
The drive up to Wales was incredible! I was mildly disappointed that they didn't have a welcome sign on the road, as you can tell I enjoy getting pictures near there, but what can we do?! HA! The roads there was VERY narrow as we made our way up the mountains, and of course right next to my window was a rock wall for what seemed like 30 miles. Winding up the road, I noticed the temperature kept dropping too, it was around 57 degrees the first time we stopped near a beautiful little church. I noticed several little houses had their stoves burning! The beauty of Wales is almost too hard to describe, as much as I had loved Scotland and England, Wales just seemed to really amaze me. I loved the hills and how rural it felt up in the area we were. We had booked a night at the Ruthin Castle and I hoped it would be amazing. It was fun to see the signs on the road using Welsh and English, and it certainly felt like we weren't in England anymore. As we arrived in the little town of Ruthin, we spotted the castle up on top of the hill. We found our way to entrance after winding up some NARROW streets, (I don't even know how people can drive on those streets!). Driving into there was such a cool feeling, through the gates the castle was surrounded by woodlands and the castle really seemed to be on its own there. Upon entering the lobby, I was already amazed and was sure the castle would more than meet our expectation. We got our stuff and checked into our rooms, I had the junior room and Mom and Dad had a castle room I think it was called. Anyway, the rooms were fabulous and the view out my window was great, it looked out into some green fields and the forrest near the castle. We toured the grounds for a bit and then started to get hungry. Mom said she wanted to eat dinner at the castle and I was glad we decided to do that. The dining room was very elegant and quiet, had some nice music playing and beautiful flowers. I ordered some trout which was just exquisite and Mom and Dad both ordered the duck. I think they enjoyed it a lot as well. The castle was huge, and there were reading rooms, game rooms and many different dining halls. I got a great nights sleep and we awoke in the morning for some more touring of the grounds. We walked around for a few hours and must have taken 1000 pictures between Mom and I! HA! The grounds were amazing, the greenery and old castle walls were really interesting to see. There were also a lot of peacocks, rabbits and other wildlife on the property. Ruthin Castle is definitely one of the coolest places I have ever stayed in my life. We all raved about how fun and cool it was. If you find yourself in Wales, I promise you will love the castle there in Ruthin and the prices compared to a lot of the UK were actually really good (I think my room was 50 pounds and Mom and Dad's room was around 75).
The week seemed to go sooooo fast and starting our last full day together felt a little sad as we headed towards the town of Conwy. The drive to there was also beautiful and as we neared Conwy you could see the Sea of Ireland on the north hand side of the road. We got to Conwy quickly from Ruthin and wanted to spend our last day out of the car and enjoying the sites. Conwy was a really cool little seaside town which is well know for the walls the encircle the entire city. It was a lot of fun, you can walk along the walls the entire way, so we walked up to the place where you can get on the wall and enjoyed the uneven walk around! HA! The city itself was very charming, it had a lot of cool little shops and restaurants. I also noticed there was a barber shop named Jensen's Barber (my sister's married name is Jensen) so that was kind of fun too. We spent lots of time in the shops and finally Mom got to eat her fish and chips! HA! She seemed pretty happy and so did Dad. I opted for the meat pie which was delicious, the longer I've been in Korea the less I like fried foods, and the fish looked pretty oily to me. The little restaurant was nice and we enjoyed a good meal there, as well as buying a lot of things for souvenirs. I really liked the Wales flag, and so I bought almost all of my souvenirs in Wales. The people there were really friendly and I really loved that little country. The weather there was also nice, a little breezy, but it was a lovely day to enjoy seeing a historic town like that.
As the day was winding down we decided to head back to Manchester and get ready for my flight out the next day. I was hopeful that on the way back in to England we might see a sign for welcome to Wales, but...there wasn't. We got back to Manchester and just had a nice evening enjoying discussing all the fun things we had done. I decided since dad was such a Road Warrior and had braved over 1000 miles of driving on the wrong side, around roundabouts and everything else, he deserved a nice picture with his chariot! We were even joking around and I got him to flex his muscles...he had came, he had seen, he had CONQUERED the roads of the UK! I also had a chance to finally see the lovely tea pot Mom had bought for herself in Denby. I wished it was easier to get things like that home, I would have liked to have bought some pottery as well.
The next morning was of course a sad one, as I had to arise early and get back over the airport for my long flight back to Korea. There were tears shed at the airport as there always are when you leave the ones you love. I know it might be some time again until I see Mom and Dad and that's hard. I'd like to take this time to thank them for joining me on this AMAZING trip. They were both so wonderful to travel with, this certainly was my favorite trip I've ever taken. They are just so easy and fun to travel with. My Mom has to be one of the most enthusiastic people ever, I loved to hear her say "Oh guys, look over there!" all through the trip. She was lovely and enthusiastic and it made it a lot of fun. To my Dad, thanks for being so pleasant and easy to get along with, my Dad has to be one of the kindest, easiest to get along with guys in the world. He likes to do things that make others happy, and I appreciated his willingness to do anything we wanted to do on the trip (even the day we must have walked at least 5 miles around Edinburgh...no joke!). He was always smiling and happy. I love my parents and I'm so thankful and happy that we did this trip. I will never forget the times we shared here, and I hope it was just as special for you both too. These will be memories I carry with me through my whole life. I love you both!
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” Mark Twain
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